FAMILY
“Family”, this word is really filled with emotions,happiness,memories and even it refers to sorrow . If one hears this word he starts thinking of his family, his mother, father etc whether it’s a joint or a nuclear family. For many people, family is to live together, eat together, stay together. Yes, of course it should be practiced in a family, that lives together. But does that really mean that in a family these things are enough to call it as a family?
Well, I think no, family is not just living together , eating together, sharing views and ideas or experiences/ events but in a family, members should be connected to each other; not only through conversations or sharing their views but they should be connected to each other heart to heart. Even though they could not be in touch with each other for many days, months or years but they really should be in touch heart to heart.
A family cannot be called a family until and the members of the family are not one. As I wrote, family is not just talking to each other but it should be free of doubts, confusions, grudges and bitterness towards each other. Family does not only refer to a large or a small group of people living, eating, staying, praying together but really refers that in a family problems should be solved untidily. There should be understanding between the members of a family ,even though they might live a hundred’s of miles away from each other.
Understanding is must not only just to demolish problems but it finally ends up increasing a thing between the family members that is trust.
Trust is the most important thing not for only a family to be happy but for the whole humanity. Trust is a bond which has to be there. Without trust there would be no peace in a family or in our world. There is a famous saying that ‘the whole universe does stand on
the pillars of trust’.
Without this pillar of trust there would have been nothing possible. Even Almighty has send us here only after he trusted us and had some expectations from us to praise him and thank him for creating this beautiful universe.
So finally, the meaning of the word ‘Family’ does not only mean doing several things together but it means to love each other unconditionally, trust each other formerly,be connected to each other internally, understand each other in every situation positively, to solve problems untidily and at last to remove all grudges, bitterness, anger, confusions or doubts about each other to live life more happier than it is.
